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Post by Haku on Feb 19, 2004 1:38:57 GMT -5
How did you know you were/were not in love?
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Post by geneva on Feb 19, 2004 1:44:12 GMT -5
i would have to say yes i have been in love. but i also believe that it's a lot easier to fall in love with people than some people say (thought simple crushes do not qualify) also the sort of love i consider real love one can have more multiple people who are even jsut friends.... this is the sort of love i'd want to marry for. i know this is an eccentric vew and it sounds different when i say it than what i man. maybe i'll jsut stop now since i'm not making any sense, or at least not the sence i want to make.
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Post by Archagon on Feb 19, 2004 16:43:27 GMT -5
Twice, then I gave up As for being in love, I guess you just know...then again, your emotions could make you THINK that it was love, when it was just a simple crush...however, I don't think that was the case for me. I don't remember very well what it was like...all I remember is that half the time there were feelings of happiness, of hope, and the other half feelings of utmost despair and death. The latter because I could never tell those that I loved (or whatever) that I did...and any action, any sign of them not loving me back or loving someone else (for I did not know) caused me great pain. Well, no more for now. Loveless and loving it ;D
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Post by KillinKrillan on Feb 19, 2004 17:42:53 GMT -5
It's debatable... Very debatable...
(I put not sure)
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Post by Little Miss Odd on Feb 19, 2004 21:21:02 GMT -5
well i obviously put no...
a) because i'm me b) because i think i scare guys, and they have made no attempt be anything but friends if not targets c) i have weird standards(ie. unattainable)
so i'd have to say, nope, never fallen in love
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Post by KillinKrillan on Feb 19, 2004 21:24:30 GMT -5
Not even with Stitch?
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Post by Little Miss Odd on Feb 19, 2004 21:31:09 GMT -5
just what the hell is going on in that empty head of yours?
stitch is cool.. but not my type....
a case of projection, possibly?
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Post by Antid on Feb 19, 2004 22:58:40 GMT -5
I'm quite sure that I have, because crushes don't usually last for five years straight...
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Post by bezzerkker on Feb 20, 2004 0:45:22 GMT -5
I think I may be in love right now... crushes don't last too long with me, and this feels more intense, serious and stable, and more loving, of course
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Post by flirtayangel on Feb 21, 2004 12:38:24 GMT -5
I don't believe that I have gone through enough, or am knowledged enough to define love. If I can't define it, I don't believe to be able to really experience it. Therefore, I do not claim to have ever been in love. Very emotionally attached, sure...but not to the extent of love.
~*~Me
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Post by bezzerkker on Feb 21, 2004 17:58:49 GMT -5
from what it seems to me, love is difficult do describe. For me, it tends to seem every description seem a horrible understatement. And so I've given up on trying to describe it, because it does so much, comes in countless variations, and changes over time, deepening or fading. in fact, it is my opinion that the idea of love itself has been degraded by its overusage and improper use.
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Post by Archagon on Feb 21, 2004 19:29:37 GMT -5
People are so wierd...always striving to define undefinable concepts.
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Post by Antid on Feb 21, 2004 21:19:41 GMT -5
Nothing is undefinable.
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Post by KillinKrillan on Feb 21, 2004 21:23:31 GMT -5
Perhaps... But everything has a different meaning for everyone.
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Post by DarkJaguar on Feb 22, 2004 2:29:04 GMT -5
Yes, I am in love. I as well cannot begin to describe it. But all I know is that with the person I am with right now i feel more compatible, happier, and attached to than any other guy i have been with or thoguht of romatically. I even could marry him someday if it came down to it.
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